Chris - you have nothing to apologise for. Anyone who has read your story would support you 100%.
Mickey Mouse made an excellent point. I don't mind active JWs engaging in reasonable debate, as has been said many times before both sides can learn from the comments made. Renaii's dismissive attitude towards the hurt and pain suffered by many on here was a real irritant. She may as well said that people on here have been imagining the experiences they have gone through.
Indulge me with some Miss Marpleesque deliberations:
Renaii (if she exists) is quite clearly a JW outcast who will probably never set foot in a KH again but will envisage herself begging Jehovah to spare her at Armaggeddon. She knows that the JWs may not accept her wholeheatedly so she can play at being a pretend JW through this board. This protects the fantasy that JWs are the true religion.
If Renaii is a fictional creation - I think the use of a photo as an avatar is a red herring. I don't believe that anyone in Renaii's situation would reveal what they looked like. As has been said before postings throughout the day and often the early hours - who's looking after the kids?
Another point - if you look at the first thread (I think) started by Chikkie (who says she is Renaii's sister), there are posts by someone called LooLoo who has the same ip as Chikkie - the design of the id box is the same. If someone else has a look and I'm wrong - apologies.
Good riddance as far as I'm concerned - it was only a matter of time before the line was crossed.